See the patterns that shape your relationships

Discover how you attach, love, and respond to closeness and conflict — in language that finally makes sense.

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You’re not broken — you’re patterned. Patterns can be understood.

Do these feel familiar?

You pull away when someone needs closeness
You give advice when comfort was needed
Small fights feel outsized
You wonder if you’re too much — or not enough

Withinly turns these patterns into words you can use — no labels, no quick fixes, just clear recognition.

"It’s not about what’s wrong with you. It’s about understanding what makes sense about you."

Understand yourself at your own pace

Reflection unfolds step by step. Each layer connects to the next, and your AI companion remembers your patterns so you can notice them in daily life.

  • 3–5 minutes to your first reflection
  • No labels or diagnoses — just recognition
  • Private by default (even with partner sync)
  • Free to start; pay only when you go deeper
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Notice your patterns

Short, psychology-informed questions reveal how you connect and relate to yourself.

Recognition
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Understand

Get your first reflection

A personal narrative weaves your signals into something coherent. See why you react the way you do.

Language
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Explore

Talk it through

Your AI companion reflects your patterns back in real situations — like a wise friend.

Insight
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Grow

Go deeper when ready

Unlock richer portraits on conflict, trust, and communication — or explore how your patterns meet with a partner.

Connection

Your pace is the right pace

Some days you’ll dive deep; other days you’ll just check in. Withinly adapts and remembers where you’ve been.

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Why Withinly

You don’t need fixing — you deserve understanding.

Recognition, not labels

Language you can feel and use, without boxes.

Private by default

Your reflections stay yours.

Deeper than a quiz, lighter than therapy

Insights you can actually use.

Grows with you

From your first reflection to deeper portraits — at your pace.

For Couples

See how your patterns meet

One link. Two private spaces. One shared map.

Sync with your partner to see where you align, where you miss, and how to meet in the middle.

Couple Insights

Start with a free glimpse. Unlock deeper insights together if you're ready.

  • Private by default — only shared insights are visible
  • One purchase unlocks couple insights for both partners
  • Actionable guidance that helps you meet in the middle

"We stopped asking who’s right and started noticing our rhythm. Naming our patterns took the heat out of conflict and gave us a way to meet in the middle."

Maya & Luis
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Fair exchange for meaningful insights

Free to Start

  • Discover your patterns
  • Get your first personal reflection
  • Try conversations with your AI companion
  • First Couple Glimpse is free
  • Explore what’s possible
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Early Access

Pay as You Go with Sparks ✨

  • Sparks are tokens for deeper insights
  • Dive into detailed portraits when you're ready
  • Unlimited conversations
  • Partner sync for joint insights
  • Only pay for what matters to you
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Pricing announced at launch. No subscriptions required — just pay for insights that matter.

Early Access Testimonials

"I’ve been in therapy for years. This gave me insights my therapist and I are exploring together."
— Early member
"The report on my relationship patterns made me cry — the good kind. I felt seen."
— Beta tester
"It’s like a wise friend who remembers every conversation and helps me see the threads."
— Premium member

Common questions

Is this therapy?
No. Withinly is a reflection tool — like a mirror for your patterns. It's about recognition, not treatment. If you're in crisis, please seek professional help.

What if I'm single?
Perfect. Understanding yourself before your next relationship is one of the best ways to grow. You don't need a partner to use Withinly.

How private is this?
Your reflections stay yours. Even in partner sync, only shared insights are visible — never your private answers or chats.

How much does it cost?
Starting reflections are free. If you want to go deeper, you'll use Sparks (credits). In beta, pricing is flexible while we learn from users — you won't have to commit to subscriptions.

Be among the first to see your patterns clearly

We're opening Withinly to a small early group. Join our closed beta and be among the first to explore.

No commitment. No pressure. Just gentle recognition of who you already are.